I used to always look for a taller man. I am beginning to think that is not the ideal. After being with a short guy, I know that is not what’s up either. I know I am not alone in this. Women go for the tall dark and handsome guy, or at least taller. I think we have got it all wrong. Women should look for a guy more her own height. When dancing or hugging you will be more in alignment. Hips will move along with hips and arms/shoulders will rest in the right spot on each others bodies. The best part of all, much easier positioning for a kiss. The short guy I dated, it was all about bending (very uncomfortable). I really could only make out sitting. My new love will have a much better time finding my lips at around my height.